That kind of love where two people make commitments and then fulfill them. That kind of love that you have when you’re married and you ask each other how each other’s day was. Of course you need those little moments in the relationship where you act spontaneously and grab the girl by the waist making her hormones spiral out of control, but the love that I admire the most is the love that is effortless. Of course, in every relationship there’s that initial “lovey-dovey” phase where you want to force yourself to spend every second of the day with them and where you can’t stop the PDA because you’re just “so in love ” which from my standpoint as a prom date-less 17 year old makes me want to vomit. The little things like making the coffee and bringing it up to her while she’s still in bed or offering to take the kids to school so he won’t be late for work. Yes of course they argue all of the time over the classic, “You can’t wear that, we’re going to a fancy dinner!” or the “Why is it that you never let me speak, woman!” There is a lot of miscommunication and struggle for compromise, however, in the end, it all comes down to the little things. Then I see my dad always picking her up from work and complimenting her on her outfit. Every day I see my mom get up in the morning and criticize my dad’s choice for a tie but then go downstairs and make him some breakfast. I mean what is there to know when you’re 17, right? The only thing I know is what I see every day. Isn’t that funny? How is it possible that two people can find each other, fall in love, and not get bored of each other? It’s so crazy and bizarre that it makes me laugh. It’s two random people becoming obsessed with each other’s existence to the point of insanity.
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